Munches:
First of all, you have to be aware of where exactly you are going. Munches for example are very different from all other BDSM-related gatherings, so let’s start with these.
A “munch” (originally called “burgermunch”) is a gathering of BDSM-people in a public place. Usually a restaurant. The idea is to provide a non-threatening, low threshold meeting place where people can meet others to talk, find information and exchange ideas. Needless to say this would not be the appropriate place for revealing BDSM clothing and gear and really not a good place for BDSM behavior. This means no spanking or pouring hot sauce on your subs tongue at your locate Road House. Remember you are in public.
Also, a munch is usually especially created to provide a female-friendly environment, so “hunting” or “trolling” (i.e. partner search) is not an option. Munches are a gatherings where like minded people can actually meet in a safe environment. They are a wonderful idea for anyone new to the scene. Continue reading Post ID 59